Being a girl is not all that people crack up it to be. I promise, not all of us girls can just roll out of bed looking like Megan Fox or Jennifer Aniston. It's just not possible; Which is probably a disappointment to most men around the world. Now there is hope for most men, we do have these things called make up and straighteners that make us look less like hell, and more flattering. Then you have those girls that can just roll out of bed looking good and not have to do anything but they're rather rare.
There are many downsides to being a girl and those are just the beginning of them.
Now don't get me wrong, the clothes,shopping,getting nails done, and cuddling babies is fun and all, but there comes a time in every girls life where they hit the realization that being a boy would be twelve times easier. Trust me, it really would. Most girls would give anything not to have to wake up at six every morning, go through the raging hormones to where we eat everything as far as the eye can see, or try to lose weight just to impress the guy sitting behind us in third hour.
Half the crap we do, we do for boys.Trust me, no one wants to wake up at six and put on make up and curl our hair for nothing. The great thing about this is that boys don't really notice. Most of them are oblivious anyway. Now, I can honestly say there is no one I try to impress at my school since I'm pretty much related to majority of the students anyway, plus I promised myself no more dating in highschool... which shouldn't be a problem. Haha.
One more thing that I have a problem with is I can never make up my mind. One day I feel like I have my mind made up, but by the next week I feel as if I can't live without something. That's just how it works. It takes me
forever to get over things. Once I get attached to something, it's hard for me to let go. Which is kind of a problem. It also means I'm not the hugest fan of change. Again, that's not a good thing considering I'll be graduating soon which I'm not looking forward to
AT ALL. The funny thing is, I can know the "thing" isn't good for me or whatever and I'll still catch myself thinking about this "thing:". So the "thing" is really a person but that's a different story.
Another thing I hate, as done everyone else is the wonderful thing called drama.
I don't even know where to being on this topic. I just want to say a couple things that will probably come out as blunt as needed.
1.
Don't talk crap on the internet about people. You're not cool when you do it and the web isn't your diary. You got a problem with someone? Pray about it or tell it to their face. You're no better than they are.
2.
If you don't know if it's true or not, keep your mouth shut.
Most girls do not follow this. Why? because we pretty much believe everything we hear. I know for a fact that I myself, am gullible. So even I have trouble following a rule such as this. But if it ain't about you, don't go tellin' tales. Word.
3.
Don't put yourself in the middle of other peoples drama
It is highly unnecessary and you'll regret it. Yes, there is a difference between someone telling you what' going on and you butting into something that had nothing to do with you to begin with. Just mind your own business and life will be simple.
4.
Don't talk smack on people you don't know.
This is exceptionally important since you don't know the person. Which links back to the whole " don't believe everything you say." Sure you may hear bad things about people and automaticallyput them under the "bad" category but you don't know if that piece of information is true about the person or not. If you have proof that it is, then it still does NOT make them a bad person. Don't forget
you make mistakes as well.
Another thing us girls as very
very good at doing is comparing ourselves to others. I do this a lot actually. I see someone with something of great value and automatically think I'm less of a person because I lack it. That's the thing; girls are usually never satisfied. Once we get something, we're on to wanting something else.
Girls are mean. Highschool girls, that is. We judge other people by what they wear, or how they did their hair, or even by what they drive. I honestly don't see how this matters in any way possible. It honestly doesn't matter what clothes we wear, how we wear our hair, or what car we drive. According to girl though, if you're not up to date with the latest fashion then you're automatically "unpopular".
We tend to break into cliques and not befriend other people unless they're like us. So I think I made it pretty clear that the girl world isn't a tea party.
Whilst there are tons of disadvantages to being a lady, it also has its perks.
I probably won't think of too many, but I do know a few for a fact.
If you're a girl, you dont have to pay for dates (if you score a decent guy.) They don't understand how nice it is to be able to just go to the movies and not have to pay for anything. It's a glimpse of heaven, if you will.
You can wear glitter and no one will question your sexual orentation (normally). I feel as if I were given the option, I would lay in a bath full of glitter. Just so I could look like Kesha.
We control the relationship pretty much... we carry the whip all day, every day. When we want something, all we gotta do is crack it. That's how it works.
We're generally liked more. We're more dependable, not to mention more intelligent. We got it all down for the most part. We also move out earlier than most men. That's just the way it is.
While, I have stayed up in the wee hours of morn to finish this, I must sign off so I don't ramble into what could become a novel. If you made it this far, congrats. Few people do.
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